So the GF is leaving for the Navy in two weeks, and I'm still in the UK. I've gone between being terrified to angry to accepting. I keep swinging between them all with alarming regularity. I'm barely going to see her for the next two years, then for who knows how long.
I love her and she's an amazing part of my life... but what do you do when the most amazing part of a relationship is going on hold for who knows how long? Any advice from anyone out there actually reading this?
Monday 14 January 2013
Wednesday 9 January 2013
When I First Realised
The first time I realised that I like girls better than boys was the first time I ever went between a woman's legs. I had always known I was into both boys and girls, but had dated a string of boys before I first slept with another woman. Silly me thought that while I found girls attractive, I couldn't ever date one because the dynamics would never work. Back in the day before I began wondering why it had never really worked with a guy before.
The first girl that I slept with was also in my first threesome. It was with a mutual FwB guy that we knew, he arranged it for us because we had both told him we had always wanted to try one but had never had the guts to do anything about it. We organised it and by god, being between a girl's legs is in the top three things I recommend every girl should do before they die (the other two being try gelato in Italy and skinny dipping).
Every touch, every nip, I knew exactly how it felt on her. I knew exactly what she was feeling and I knew exactly what to do to make her feel exactly how I wanted her to. It was my first time with a girl but it felt like so much more than my first time with a boy. It felt like I was discovering what I had been looking for all along.
The first girl that I slept with was also in my first threesome. It was with a mutual FwB guy that we knew, he arranged it for us because we had both told him we had always wanted to try one but had never had the guts to do anything about it. We organised it and by god, being between a girl's legs is in the top three things I recommend every girl should do before they die (the other two being try gelato in Italy and skinny dipping).
Every touch, every nip, I knew exactly how it felt on her. I knew exactly what she was feeling and I knew exactly what to do to make her feel exactly how I wanted her to. It was my first time with a girl but it felt like so much more than my first time with a boy. It felt like I was discovering what I had been looking for all along.
Friday 4 January 2013
Kink Play: Ropework
Last night was absolutely amazing. We went and had dinner with Kinky Couple, and then went back to their place. The meal was very casual, very vanilla but great fun. They're very easy to get along with and we had a great time. We hung around at their place for an hour or so afterwards before Mr. Kinky Couple invited us upstairs to do naughty things.
We had already prearranged many of the things we wanted to do, and talked about our rules and hard limits. Being the more inexperienced couple, our rules went apparently. We have a few hard limits but the main one is that we don't play with guys. We both identify as queer (possibly bisexual, but the explanation for that is about twenty pages long, so maybe another day) so we don't play with men, but we didn't mind Mr. Kinky Couple being around. Which was probably a good thing because he schooled me for a large part of the night.
We had already prearranged many of the things we wanted to do, and talked about our rules and hard limits. Being the more inexperienced couple, our rules went apparently. We have a few hard limits but the main one is that we don't play with guys. We both identify as queer (possibly bisexual, but the explanation for that is about twenty pages long, so maybe another day) so we don't play with men, but we didn't mind Mr. Kinky Couple being around. Which was probably a good thing because he schooled me for a large part of the night.
Tuesday 1 January 2013
Happy New Year!
Oh, and Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year to all you lovely people out there this time of year!
And Freaky
The GF and I have recently been finding our way in the kink lifestyle. I've been getting off on submissive erotica ever since I can remember but other than the one guy that used to hit me around the face when we were in bed (consensually), I've never really explored it. But when the GF and I first started talking about having threesome, foursomes or moresomes a while ago, I began to realise that she was maybe every bit at kinky as I was. I rejoined the kink website that I joined a couple of years ago but had let my profile hibernate on, and she joined up as well.
We've both been overseas in the UK for the last six months even though we are originally from Australia, as I did a six months exchange for university and she came over with me. It was something about being on holiday (almost) and away from everything that we were used to, but we suddenly felt so empowered and exploring the lifestyle down here was so much easier than I could have imagined it being in the city where I live back home. We found our first ever play partners within a few weeks of joining the site and settling down here, and had an amazing couple of sessions with them. I should clarify - play partners can be anything from a friend with benefits, to your submissive or Dominant, your fuck buddy or another couple that you're sleeping with. Kink is a complicated world but to me, playing with someone is pretty much naked fun time with her/him/them and can have as much or little sex as all parties are comfortable with, and as much or as little kink as all parties are comfortable.
It almost felt like we were dating another couple for a few weeks there - I'll really have to write a few posts about our first couple of encounters (maybe with a few pics if I'm feeling in the mood... ;P) but anyway, we stopped playing because real life got in the way and we haven't had time since to play with them since. But now the GF has five days left in the UK, and we're considering sleeping with another couple. The girl is our age, but her partner and Dominant is a lot older than us all, but the loveliest guy I've ever met. The play with be mostly non-sexual with him but he'll be around, and mostly involve myself, the GF and his girl. I'm pretty excited but pretty nervous, they're only the second two people we've played with and who knows what fun we'll get up to... I'll get back to you
We've both been overseas in the UK for the last six months even though we are originally from Australia, as I did a six months exchange for university and she came over with me. It was something about being on holiday (almost) and away from everything that we were used to, but we suddenly felt so empowered and exploring the lifestyle down here was so much easier than I could have imagined it being in the city where I live back home. We found our first ever play partners within a few weeks of joining the site and settling down here, and had an amazing couple of sessions with them. I should clarify - play partners can be anything from a friend with benefits, to your submissive or Dominant, your fuck buddy or another couple that you're sleeping with. Kink is a complicated world but to me, playing with someone is pretty much naked fun time with her/him/them and can have as much or little sex as all parties are comfortable with, and as much or as little kink as all parties are comfortable.
It almost felt like we were dating another couple for a few weeks there - I'll really have to write a few posts about our first couple of encounters (maybe with a few pics if I'm feeling in the mood... ;P) but anyway, we stopped playing because real life got in the way and we haven't had time since to play with them since. But now the GF has five days left in the UK, and we're considering sleeping with another couple. The girl is our age, but her partner and Dominant is a lot older than us all, but the loveliest guy I've ever met. The play with be mostly non-sexual with him but he'll be around, and mostly involve myself, the GF and his girl. I'm pretty excited but pretty nervous, they're only the second two people we've played with and who knows what fun we'll get up to... I'll get back to you
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